What we did to avoid Middle Child syndrome

Ever heard of 'MIDDLE KID SYNDROME'? Does that even exist? Well, it does if you fall short of parenting. They say when you have three kids, it’s easy for one child to be ignored and it’s usually the middle kid.  I am no expert in parenting, i learn as i go along. However, i am immensely thankful for folks such as my father and many wise souls who advised us of 'fair parenting' . As parents to 3, we were advised to pay equal attention to all kids. Hence in our home we have not encountered this 'middle kid syndrome'. it’s way different at our home.. we may have given our middle child a little too much attention, if not for anything else, and occasionally I have had to check daddy to see if he was playing favorites with our middle kid (He's such a daddy clinger). I can let you in on something- this intentional parenting has paid off. It’s really how you approach it. So when our middle boy turned 3, I let him in on a big secret. I let him know he was the luckiest boy in all the world as he could help mom with his lil brother at the same time get to do adventurous big boy stuff with his older brother.

Some things we did intentionally to make our middle boy feel special and not go through any syndrome.

1. We have tuned in to make special time for our middle boy. Lil Nicky gets special staycations and dates with mom and dad alone. I often set up dates on my calendar and let him know in advance. He gets all excited when he knows it’s coming.                                         

A staycation at bab al shams, my husband and I went on, with only our middle child

A staycation at bab al shams, my husband and I went on, with only our middle child

An afternoon tea date with mommy.

An afternoon tea date with mommy.

2. We’ve ensured to have tons of single pictures taken of him and in the family pics we  make deliberate attempts to see he’s not always stuck in the middle and lost with the shuffle. 

This gorgeous shoot was done by our dear friend and photographer  @dtourphotography

This gorgeous shoot was done by our dear friend and photographer  @dtourphotography

3. My middle boy did not have the pressure of giving up his cot or his toys just because he had another sibling come along. He had his extended time and when he was way past the stage to use them, his  cot, bouncer was all asked to be given up.

4. Lil Nicky is given the same opportunities and privileges as the older or younger child is entitled. I noticed he often complained of play dates as he did not have as many friends as my older social butterfly did. These days I am making a conscious effort to ensure he gets to go for his friends birthday parties and build bonds. Planning a simple play date for him is high up on my to-do list.

5. Affirmation is a secret key, we let him know every day he’s loved and we praise his achievements. I have noticed that by lavishing praise for his tremendous effort and skill at biking, or his art work, he is less likely to dodge his bike over furniture around the house, or paint all over the walls just to get me to notice him. He's just a calm soul, I love his personality!

His dream was to ride a big bike like his older brother. We let him know he is a super biker and a fast learner

His dream was to ride a big bike like his older brother. We let him know he is a super biker and a fast learner

6. We always went with hand-me downs with our second and third, but also ensured that they got a special toy for their birthday or an occasional ‘new’ thing. This has helped my lil middle child to never ever feel like the second best or a clone to his older brother.

Something so amazing about our middle child is, the fact that he is independent, confident, secure and he’s always the peace-maker when his brothers break into feuds. I guess the middle child shapes up to become a person with great leadership, negotiation and good decision making skills - all this only if you intentionally parent them to avoid the nasty 'MIDDLE CHILD SYNDROME'  The needn't have to live with any syndrome! 


The Place you Wanna BEE

Cocoon to Butterfly kids were recently at the opening of the latest play-area in town, ‘The BEEHIVE’ which is an edutainment play-area catering to 1-12 year olds.  This unique concept and differently designed space is located in the heart of the Dubai Canal, at Blue Bay tower, next to Steigenberger Hotel, Business Bay.

At the INAUGURAL of 'The beehive'. we are in the front row- far left corner, enjoying some pop-corn and sweet treats waiting for the show to begin.

At the INAUGURAL of 'The beehive'. we are in the front row- far left corner, enjoying some pop-corn and sweet treats waiting for the show to begin.

At the inaugural  of 'The BEEHIVE'. We love Photo Booth's!!!

At the inaugural  of 'The BEEHIVE'. We love Photo Booth's!!!

My youngest- Lil M, enjoying the Giant bubbles at the inaugural of 'The Beehive', his brother Nicky is looking on with keen eyes!

My youngest- Lil M, enjoying the Giant bubbles at the inaugural of 'The Beehive', his brother Nicky is looking on with keen eyes!

The Bee Hive is designed to promote creativity, exploratory play, cognitive development, motor skill,  education, entertainment and great to host kiddies parties.

The concept is taken from the ‘Bee Hive’, where there is more to the hives than just honey - the different hives serve several purpose : pollination, nursing, housing, etc. Each hives in this play area is themed differently to create a memorable experience : for Role play, exploring science, gaming area, reading corner, hive full of tunes, artistic hive etc.

My lil fellas are born to entertain. How they love everything to do with music. Never a dull moment with these champs!

My lil fellas are born to entertain. How they love everything to do with music. Never a dull moment with these champs!

The space is much smaller than a Kidzania or other ‘edutainment’ areas available for kids to explore  in the city, hence the lil ones could be done with each hive before you even settle in. This would be an ideal pad to while away a few hours (not a full day). However, the quaint setting does give you a sense of safe and cozy feel. What I love about this space is that it is not about gadgets and screens (like most play areas) but it is an escape where kids would explore some educational play. The BEEHIVE is a great option for a moms group, for a coffee morning date outdoors by the Canal. The  kids can be entertained at The BEEHIVE, while the moms grab a coffee and indulge in some much needed girly time. The one reason I would be back here with the kids is for their price point (much more affordable when compared to the big names in Edutainment). The prices go as follows:

For 1-5 year olds : 1st hour is AED 45, Every following hour AED 25. Full Day pass is priced at  AED 95

For the Busy Bee’s 6-12 year olds : First hour is AED 65, Every following hour is AED 30. Full Day pass is priced at AED 125.

10 Beautiful lessons I have learned from my kids.

As parents, we aspire to teach kids life lessons. But most often we look past the truth that there is so much we can learn from them. As a mom of 3 boys, I can now say that motherhood has made me a better person and shaped me to be who I am today. I look at life and the world around me with brighter eyes and an open heart.

Here is a list of beautiful lessons my kids have taught me. 

  1. Find pleasures in little things . Savor every morsel of that cotton candy and look like you have just had the finest experience ever.
  2. Never Give up, keep trying even it it means you fall off a baby cot and bump yourself.

3.Every moment you have is an opportunity you have to make the most of it. Have fun, experience something magical and live in the moment. Enjoy dancing in the rain.

4. Live in wonderment. Explore the world around you and find beauty in it, even if it means to crawl on the beach, get dirt to scoop out that one little shell.

5. Cuddles and Kisses can be one of the greatest medicines. How a boo can seem less painful with just a kiss.

6. Forgive easily. You could go from “I am not your friend" to "you are the best brother ever” in one minute.

7. Being funny, silly and some good giggles  is way better than screaming, shouting and being a serious ol’ grump.

8. Be Brave. The waves are not a force coming to sweep you away under, rather one you can ride and have the most fun time.

9. Curiosity is a beautiful thing. Never hesitate to ask why and to keep on asking..till you get an answer.

10. Learn to trust and not doubt. You could jump off a railing and know that Daddy will have you tight in his hands with the perfect catch.


How to deal with 'Bickering and Sibling Rivalry'

Bickering and squabbles, does that happen with your kids in your household?

I used to deal with tantrums and routine issues, Alas! I have passed that stage (at least i believe so, crossing my finger and hoping it is not wishful thinking!). As my kids are growing older (8,5,4) there is this new 'Bickering and Squabble' phase that seems to have surfaced from no-where. It usually goes like this :

"Mom he’s calling me names”

“I did not, he’s such a liar”

“Mom he pushed me”

“That’s coz, he started it"

The easiest solution for a parent would be to ignore, and I plead guilty of using that tactic many a time (That’s just horrible, I know!) It usually come from a place where you want to distance yourself from conflicts . Ignoring is a tool, However, it is only a tool to be used when you have ascertained that your involvement is not necessary and at times you want your kids to learn problem solving on their own. I have realized that as parents one of our key responsibility is to teach our lil munchkins life skills - an important one being conflict resolution and making peace with family, friends and peers. 

Some steps I follow.

  1. Let the kids know, It is never OK to hurt someone and you respect the other - this is a non negotiable with the family
  2. Refrain from over-reacting as a parent.
  3. Do not take sides as a parent and be fair.
  4. If the fights escalates and it gets heated up, separate the siblings. 
  5. When they have cooled down have a talk with each of them and hear them out.
  6. Help each child hear the other. Make sure each apologies to the other and hugs.
  7. Work together with them on a resolution. State the issue and come up with the best possible resolution. When you are  helping kids decide on a resolution, consider the fact that each child's personality and temperament is different.

How do you help your kids make peace with their siblings or even peers? I would love to hear your tips and tricks.

Hot TOT Kids Hair Care Line

As a mom of boys, I’ve scouted near and far for some safe, sulfate free, effective hair-styling products for my lil tribe . Who does not love to have their lil tots look dapper in some spikes, structured or wet-styled look. I’m glad there is a mom out there whose line of thought matches mine. Megan Gage, struggled to find a hair product that was safe to use in an infant and went about experimenting with baby lotions and pomades. After many months of encouragement from moms who shared fondness for her son’s hairdo, she assembled a team and set out to develop safe hair products for babies - this marked the birth of 'HOT Tot' Products and Hair care line.

Hot Tot has just been launched at 'Be Bar’, Jumeirah. At the launch, my lil models had the privileged to be styled and photographed. I have personally had the opportunity to play around with ‘Structure Whip’ and ’Styling Gel’ and i have to admit, they have me won over! The ’Structure Whip’ i noticed added structure and definition without drying out my lil studs hair. This features Aloe Vera Gel, Sweet Almond oil and Shea Butter. The ‘Styling Gel’, gave a medium hold with a definitive sheen adding volume. This product features Japanese Green Tea for hydration and sheen.

I’ve finally said ‘NO’ to diluting hubby’s Hair Wax with water!

PS: Hot Tot products are available for purchase at ‘Be Bar’. For more info follow them on Facebook and instagram: @hottotdubai


Out with the old, In with the new ! Trust all of you are surrounded with new hope for this new year. The past year saw new ventures for the blog, the likes of parenting conferences and also recorded exponential growth/engagement  across the channels. This could not have been possible without you. Shouting out a BIG ‘THANK YOU’.

This year i want to encourage each of you to be ones who stand tall with the right attitude - ‘A SWAG TO STAY'. 

Stand strong when tested, Reframe your challenges, Embrace a positive mindset and Choose to be grateful . Take your focus off the strings that seem to be snapping and instead choose to see the silver lining in every cloud.  Leaving you with a quote from my favorite leadership pundit, John. C. Maxwell  “You don’t overcome challenges by making them smaller but by making yourself bigger.” 

Blessing you with Love and hope.


Mommy’s Expressing Lounges popping up at work

Now here is a brilliant Initiative from Philips AVENT, encouraging employers in UAE, to become more baby-friendly . I recently attended a talk and discussion held on the subject and walked out feeling so happy for the new moms and the expectant mommies in the city.

Returning back to work after maternity leave is emotional and physically daunting, add to that a plan for pumping breast milk at work…phew, that’s a mammoth challenge moms face! Breast feeding exclusively for around the first six months is highly recommended by WHO. After this period breastfeeding is recommended along with solid food. But let’s face reality here, most often moms are faced with workplace challenges and an environment that is not conducive to expressing milk which may compromise mothers ability to reach these breast feeding goals. How do you navigate through all of these curve balls.

GOOD NEWS MOMS..well it’s a start of something good,atleast! Philips AVENT, the company’s Mother and Childcare brand has collaborated with multidivisional conglomerate Easa Saleh Al Gurg Group to help companies outfit breast pumping rooms in their offices through a one-stop shop solution, thus encouraging employers to become more baby-friendly.

As part of the Mommy’s Expressing Lounge initiative, Philips encourages corporate offices to sign up for a partnership program, additionally the first 10 companies get a free ‘designed ideal expressing spaces fitted’. To be part of the Philips AVENT initiative, email expressinglounge@philips.com for more information or log on to www.philips.com.ae or check the Philips AVENT UAE Facebook fan page. Create awareness with you employers and moms around. This could evolve into something huge that could be life transforming for moms returning to work.

I would love to hear about personal ‘Expressing challenges’ moms have faced at their work places. Also suggestions to improve them if any. I have my personal story in the comment box below.

Christmas Festivities in Dubai

Highly Recommended Christmas Market:

What ? Al Habtoor City Hotels Christmas Markets. 

When ? December 7th until December 31st, 2016.

Where? ST Regis Garden, Al Habtoor

Time? 17:00-21:00 on a Weekday, 15:00-21:00 on a weekend.


What’s there? 

  • Ginger bread house
  • Santa Grotto
  • Retailers selling christmas gifts
  • Food, drinks including Glühwein.

Highly recommended Christmas Party for Kids

What ? Christmas with Splash 'n' Party

When? 8th December, 2016 and 15th December, 2016

Where? Splash ‘n’ Party is located in: Villa no. 1, Street 8A, Al Safa 2, Jumeirah, Dubai

Time? 15:30 to 18:30 

Price? AED 140 per kid, 1 Adult is Free for every 1 Child paying - Any Additional Adult will be charged AED 50 

What’s there? 

  • A fascinating fire and magic show
  • Delightful Christmas party filled with splash pads
  • Gingerbread house decorating
  • Live Mermaid shows, Spend your afternoon swimming with Ursula, an underwater resident mermaid at Splash n Party
  • Quality time with Santa
  • Groove to ‘your favorite holiday tunes and moves’
  • Tuck into a tantalizing kid’s Christmas meal filled with holiday-themed treats. 

 Highly Recommended Mall to visit for Christmas Festivities

What? Christmas at WAFI Mall

When? December 8th Onwards 

Price? Santa Grotto AED 60

Time? DESS & DESC Choir at 5:00pm.

 6pm- Christmas Tree Lighting

 6:30pm, 8:00pm and 9:30pm every evening-  Festive Light and sound show

 December 10th at 4:00pm- Christmas Performance by DESPA Academy

What’s there?

  • Animated display that follows the theme ‘Wafi Express: The Magical Experience’.
  • Festive Light and Sound Show
  • Performance by DESS & DESC Choir
  • Christmas Performance by DESPA Academy
  • Santa Grotto - Children who visit Santa in his grotto will receive a cuddly soft toy, a framed photograph with Santa, a raffle coupon to win a family trip to Germany courtesy of Lufthansa German Airlines and much more. Tiny tots that visit the grotto can enjoy the free Arts and Crafts area where they can create their own festive decorations while patiently waiting to meet Santa!

Highly Recommended Christmas Tree Lightings                       All FREE ENTRANCE YAY!!!!

  • Raffles Dubai -December 6 , from 6pm to 7pm
  • St Regis Dubai - December 7, from 6pm to 8pm
  • Fairmont The palm - December 7, from 5pm
  • Towers Rotana, Sheik Zayed Rd- December 12, from 7pm
  • Sofitel the Palm - December 18th, From 6pm

Highly Recommended Christmas Festival for kids

What? Dubai Winter Festival

When? From 8-10 December, 4-10pm on Thursday, and 3-10pm on Friday and Saturday.

Where? Dubai Media City Amphitheatre

Price? Advance tickets start from AED40

Tickets are available now from www.dubaiwinterfestival.com/tickets

What’s there? 

    •    Santa’s Grotto

    •    Shopping at the Winter Market

    •    Christmas Tree Lighting Ceremony 

    •    Special concerts

    •    Everyone’s favourite West End show ‘The Rat Pack’ are set to perform their greatest hits with special evening magical entertainment to get everyone in the festive spirit during the opening night on 8 December.

    •    This year’s pantomime is “Aladdin & Princess Jasmines Adventure”, where guests will watch Aladdin and Abanazer fight to use the powers of the magic lamp in order to fulfil their dreams.

    •    The Special Occasions Kids Zone promises an unforgettable weekend out for families, with plenty to keep the kids entertained, including cookie decorating, arts and crafts and face painting. For those feeling creative, kids can decorate their own edible gingerbread house at the family workshop led by French Bakery.

Dubai Winter Festival

What? Dubai Winter Festival

When? From8-10 December. 4-10pm on Thursday, and 3-10pm on Friday and Saturday.

Where? Dubai Media City Amphitheatre

Price? Advance tickets start from AED40

Tickets are available now from www.dubaiwinterfestival.com/tickets/

Our favorite festive celebration in the city, Dubai Winter Festival is back for the fifth year.

Activities offered this year

  • Santa’s Grotto
  • Shopping at the Winter Market
  • Christmas Tree Lighting Ceremony 
  • Special concerts
  • Everyone’s favourite West End show ‘The Rat Pack’ are set to perform their greatest hits with special evening magical entertainment to get everyone in the festive spirit during the opening night on 8 December.
  • This year’s pantomime is “Aladdin & Princess Jasmines Adventure”, where guests will watch Aladdin and Abanazer fight to use the powers of the magic lamp in order to fulfil their dreams.
  • The Special Occasions Kids Zone promises an unforgettable weekend out for families, with plenty to keep the kids entertained, including cookie decorating, arts and crafts and face painting. For those feeling creative, kids can decorate their own edible gingerbread house at the family workshop led by French Bakery.

Easy, Fresh and Clean recipes for kids

Looking for ideas to fix a quick, healthy and tasty meal for kids. Look no further - We continue with the series on ‘Fresh clean cooking recipes for under 20 mins fix’. The recipe below is one of our family favorite. We frequent Thai restaurants, just to have this very dish and now I have found my own way to replicate this. This is by far one of the easiest Asian dishes to prepare. It may not look appetizing to many, as steamed and raw fish is sometimes not conceived as flavorful. But believe me it is just a preconceived mindset, give it a shift and you will fall in love with the flavors the moment you take your first bite. My lil boys could sit and have a fish each on their own and they always have room for more. This taste best paired with Jasmine rice.

Steamed Fish with Garlic, Lime and Chile

Preparation TIME : 20MINS


  • 1 Hammour, Red Snapper or Cream Dori cleaned and gutted (you could even use a large fillet as i have used in the picture)
  • Banana leaf or aluminum foil
  • 12 cloves of garlic chopped round or small
  • 1 red Thai Chili sliced and 1 fresh green chillie (use according to spice preference with kids)
  • 1 Tbsp chopped Cilantro stems (coriander stalks) a few cilantro leaves for garnish
  • 2 tablespoon chicken broth
  • 3Tbsp Fish sauce
  • 1/4th cup lime juice freshly squeezed
  • 1 tsp brown sugar
  • 1/4th tsp salt


  • Make diagonal slashes across the fish on both sides with a very sharp knife
  • Use a motar and pound lightly  the chopped garlic, chili, cilantro stalks - mix this with the chicken broth, fish sauce, lime juice, salt and sugar.
  • Set aside a small portion of the mix. Place the fish on the banana leaf or aluminum foil .The remaining mix add to the Fish. (If using a whole fish, ensure the mixture is placed inside cavity generously) 
  •  Bring water to boil in a steamer. Transfer fish on the foil or banana leaf to the top of the steamer. Steam fish on medium heat for 12 minutes. 
  • Transfer fish to a serving plate, ensuring all the juices are scooped to the plate. Pour the reserved mix over .
  • Garnish with lemon slices and cilantros. Enjoy with steamed rice.

Voila! An instant fresh, flavorful dish with a handful of ingredients and a preparation time of under 20 mins!

Fancy Cooking for kids made easy

I have had so many moms requesting me to share recipes for a tasty meal for kids. I am no chef, however I enjoy crafting my own dishes with whatever ingredients that I can grab hold of from my cabinet and fridge, surprisingly they turn out good and my clan of boys are a fan of 'moms cooking'. I am a huge advocate of 'FRESH/CLEAN COOKING' and I try my best to have my home meals prepared bearing that philosophy in mind. I eat out so much as a reviewer and food critic that it is imperative I check how I balance that lifestyle with fresh food at home.  As a mom of 3 little boys and with all that I juggle, let me be honest, i do not stay put in the kitchen whipping up a storm. My kids enjoy it when its moms food on the table, hence I do my best to prepare hearty and healthy meals for them, however my big rule is 'NO time consuming recipes'. I am sharing with you two of my recipes which is top favorite in my household. They can be savored just as they are and with no extra side dishes (so no extra time in the kitchen), as they have veggies and proteins all packed into them. They are crafted and put together by myself and they have always been a hit at home. They are great for formal dinners too.  Leftovers always packed for school. Hope you get to try and enjoy them too! 


Preparation TIME : 15 MINS


  • 1 pack Egg Noodles/ Hakka Noodle
  • 2 tbs oil 
  • 1/2 cup baby carrot cut slanted, Broccoli florets,
  • Cabbage medium cube size, thinly sliced Capsicum/bell pepper 
  • 1 tablespoon garlic finely chopped
  • 1/4th tsp chilly powder, pepper power (to marinate prawn)
  • 3 tablespoons soy sauce
  • 2 tablespoons chili sauce (depends on spice level)
  • 1/2 teaspoon salt


  • Marinate prawn with salt, chilly powder and pepper powder
  • Cook noodles, do not overcook, check package instructions. Drain the cooked noodles in a colander, and rinse them with cold water. Set aside.
  • Heat oil in a wide pan or wok on medium high heat, first sauté the garlic, for about 1 minutes. add Prawn that is marinated, cook for another minute or 2.
  • stir fry the carrots with the above, then add the cabbage, then the broccoli. Stir fry for about two minutes.
  • lastly add the bell pepper. Do not overcook the vegetables, it should be crunchy. 
  • Add noodles, salt, soy sauce, and chili sauce, toss them together and stir-fry them for about a minute.   Yummy noodles packed with proteins and veggies are now ready for slurping!



The below recipe may look time consuming, but no!! It is just the cooking time in the slow cooker. Preparing time is under 20 mins and all you do is throw everything below in a slow cooker first thing in the morning, go ahead with your daily chore, return back in 5 hrs to have a scrumptious meal ready. When kids are back from school, the meal is just ready and can be enjoyed hot and fresh!


Preparation TIME : 20 MINS

Slow cook in Oven for :5- 6 hrs.


  • chicken weighing 2 kg

For the marinade :

  • 8 cloves of fresh garlic paste
  • 2 1/2 tsp paprika 
  • 1 tsp freshly ground pepper powder 
  • 1tsp salt
  • Lemon juice from 1/2 a lemon
  • 1 tbsp bread crumbs
  • 1/2 tsp soya sauce

For Bed of Veggies

  • 2 medium carrots cut into cubes,
  • 1 broccoli florets
  • 8 mushooms in halves
  • 4 potatoes quartered
  • 2tbsp garlic power and dry herbs 
  • Olive oil to drizzle


  • Place veggies ina 6-qt. slow cooker; drizzle olive oil and sprinkle with garlic power and dry herbs (rosemary, parsley etc) toss with 1/4 teaspoon salt and pepper. 
  • Baste the chicken with olive oil and use half ofthe prepared chicken marinade in chicken cavity and all over rubbing generously. You could tie drumsticks together.
  • Place chicken over vegetables in slow cooker, breast side up. Pour remaining marinade over chicken.
  • Cook, covered, on medium for 4hours and on high 1- 2 hrs or until a thermometer inserted in thickest part of thigh reads 170°-175° and vegetables are tender.
  • Remove chicken on to a pan drizzled with olive oil, pan fry it for a few minutes till the outside is golden brown.
  • Remove chicken to a serving platter;. Let stand 15 minutes before carving. Serve with vegetables.



LegoLand Dubai Review


When? Opened October 31,2016. Open 365 days of the year.

Where? Dubai Parks and Resorts, Near Jebel Ali area

Timings? 10:00-18:00

Ticket Price? Day Pass - Adult general admission AED 295, Kids General admission - 250 (3-11 years)

Contact? 800 262 9464info@legoland.ae

The Highlights

  • Over 40 interactive rides, shows and attractions.
  • 6 Themed lands - MiniLand, LegoCity, Imagination, Kingdoms, Adventure and Factory
  •  Lego building experiences.
  • 15,000 Lego models


  • Be Prepared to walk a lot and to stay an entire day to make the most of your visit
  • Carry snacks, bottles of water, caps, hats and strollers
  • Make a note of the timings of live shows and 4D movies. You do not want to miss them!
  • Grab a Legoland map and choose the most popular rides/attraction to start with.
  • swimming costume and towels will be handy once the water park is opened full-fledged.

Good news

  • There are many indoor air-conditioned spots. To beat the summer heat, escape to MiniLand which is an air-conditioned dome or choose a Sit down indoor restaurant orbuilding experience area.
  • Mothers with infants have dedicated baby care areas and toilets space dedicated to changing areas
  • The rides are age appropriate and safety seems to be on a high note here.

The Low

  • Kids younger than 3 and a half are not able to ride on most attractions.
  • The restaurant options are limited and seems to be on the pricy side.
  • Water park is not fully operational and still under construction (Big disappointment for the little one)

Our favorite Pick

  • 4D movie
  • MiniLand
  • Live Ninja go show
  • Dragon Coaster
  • Driving Zone

Lego presents 'UAE-eclair competition'

Cocoon to Butterfly Kids had a blast at the UAE-eclair competition, where Le Meridien Mina Seyahi, pastry chefs assisted my boy tribe in decorating eclairs with their favorite representation of the UAE. It’s part of an ongoing competition, with the winning éclair being recreated by the patissiers at Le Meridien and sold in the hotel throughout the week of UAE National Day.

LEGO Megabuild, which will be transforming the ground of Le Meridien Mina Seyahi into a giant LEGO construction site. Children of all ages are being invited to build a city, as LEGO intends to recreate the Dubai skyline with over half a million LEGO bricks. Le Meridien Family will be offering complimentary access to the general public from 18th-27th, October 2016, throughout the LEGO build, with LEGO professionals on hand to guide and assist all mini master builders and to make sure safety standards are adhered to. 

Unleash imagination and foster creativity among our pint sized heroes- SKY IS THE LIMIT!!


Kids invited to LEGOLAND Awesome at the Beach

What ? LEGO Megabuild

When?  18th-27th, October 2016

Where? Le Meridien Mina Seyahi

Kids all over Dubai cannot wait for 31st October 2016 - LEGOLAND® Dubai, opens. YAY!!!

As part of the festivities attached to the opening, the theme park had brought in some “AWESOME” to THE BEACH, with a fun and interactive pop-up shop. My kids had the best time enjoying playful LEGO building experiences, with the Lego Land team giving them a helping hand. 




Unleash imagination and foster creativity among our pint sized heroes- SKY IS THE LIMIT!!




Rearing Kids with values

"To educate a person in mind and not morals is to educate a menace to society."

-Theodore Roosevelt


I hit an interesting conversation with a group of moms at school. One of the mommies was sharing with the group and seeking help to cope with a competitive mommy friend who is on her neck to see how her child is fairing and how many activities she has enrolled her kid in. Her competitive mommy friend gets palpitations if her child’s progress record is not steady as a top performer or if progress is not pictured in an upward linear angle. The child is bombarded with after-school activities that he isn’t grabbed by, giving the child (who is in primary school) zero opportunity to enjoy some down time. The tad time the mom gets with her child at school pick-ups she is seen shooting out questions to gage if her kid is reading plenty and where he stands compared to his peers. Now what surprised me beyond words was none of the above. I was dumbfounded to learn that this parent was furious with the teacher for having her child sit with a ‘non-superior race’ and ‘non high-achievers’. Her argument being, she spent all this money and sent her child to a ‘Superior School’ to have her kid learn from a ‘Superior race’ and sit alongside 'Superior race' (This is the mom's words). Who is a ‘Superior race'?? I wonder!! I thought we are all humans running the same race on planet earth. I wish we all taught our children that every human being is a superior creation and there is none inferior to us.

Mind you this comment is coming from an expat mom who lives in a tolerant country and has chosen a fine International school flooded with over 80 nationalities. I am appalled at the sound of her comment!! The stuff of superiority complex, racism, colonialism still exist in this day and age in such a progressive society. These ugly flaws that birth wars and genocide still exist in our midst!! I have to say this is a rare occasion and a rare finding for me and i hope there are not many parents who’s line of thought function like this.

The truth is values matter more than education. There are enough negative forces out there in the world to influence our children with the bad and the ugly. It is up to us parents to instill good values in our children before we even introduce them to formal education. Every child deserves to be taught, but let us start with tolerance, kindness, honesty, ethics, good sportsman spirit and more…

Managing your Kids emotions after a mistake


Mistakes are part and parcel of life and it is sometimes unavoidable. We are not raising ‘Perfect Kids’, we are here to empower them with essential life skills to support  them in bouncing back when faced with a  negative situation- Help them live their best life! STOP nagging, constantly pointing out mistakes and bringing up past mistakes.

My oldest has entered a phase where he messes up and gets frustrated with himself, to the point he sulks in a corner for an extended period. How do we use good judgment in a situation and help our kids get past these situations? Here are a few tips I have learned with time and experience. Now, these tips work best with kids who are 5 years and above. For my youngest it’s "TIME OUT", i am still figuring that one out (LOL!!).

An Example from my 7 year old boy’s experience : “MOM, I suck at football, I was annoyed and i kicked the temporary goal post down when i was playing with friends”

 1. Get the facts out. “Can you describe to me what happened and what led to you feeling this way?  “My friends laughed when I  could not pass and kick with the right techniques, it made me angry, Now they will not want to play with me ever” (my boy’s response)

It is important that we teach them the difference betweenfacts and feelings.  So my response is :

You suck at football is your perception and feeling. I’ve seen you play and i think you are fabulous. You may want to get further coaching to get better at it and we can discuss and look into that ( he is going through a feeling of shame and anger at this point and i am trying to get to the root of that).

Did your friends mention to you that they will never play with you? “NO” (My sons response) . “Then again it’s your perception, hence you feel that way about them. Shake it off and on the weekend you can go back to play with them”. (mom’s response)

Address these feelings and perception withAffirmation/positive reinforcement and see how best you can help the child get better at a skill.

2. Address the mistake and help them identify  a wrong behavior. Kicking the goal post down was a reaction to that feeling of anger and do you think that was the right thing to do ? “NO” (my son’s response). “Ok that is an unacceptable behavior! great you recognize that so in the future you will be mindful not to be destructive”. (mom’s response)

3.  Address the feeling. Can you describe to me what exactly is the feeling that was  going through you when you destroyed the goal post? and what is going on now? Does it hurt in your tummy or you feel sick, you feel like punching… What are you going to do about these feelings in the future?  Hear them out.

Allow them to come up with a plan or guide them with options. My options : You should apologize for kicking the goal post down.It would be a great idea to talk to your friends and let them know that you feelings are hurt when they laugh at you . You may want dad and mom to have a word with them.

4. Address consequences.  There are always consequences for bad attitude and behaviors. Discuss with kids what are the consequences to expect the next time around the mistake is repeated.

 5.Teach them a life lesson and reassure them.  Teach them how to manage emotions. Let them know, the next time you go through these emotions walk away, think through it and have a talk with your friends and family about your feelings. Let kids know there is always a learning to take away from every mistake. Discuss the learning from this present mistake.

Love unconditionally!!! Never withhold love from your child just because he/she makes mistakes. Remember we all do and we all deserve to be loved no matter what!


How do parents manage emotions of their kids after they have messed up? I would love to hear your thoughts. Please comment on the box below. Looking  forward to learning from you.

IMG Worlds of Adventure theme park

WHAT? IMG Worlds of Adventure theme park

WHEN? Opening August 31, 2016

WHERE? Sheikh Mohammed Bin Zayed Road – in between The Villa and Global Village

TICKETS? AED 300 for an adult and AED 250 for children

Tickets can be purchased now at www.IMGworlds.com

SAFETY? A wristband is locked on kids which enables parents to monitor their location.

Welcome to DUBAI, a city that hosts the worlds biggest and largest of all kinds. The latest addition to the list is ‘THE WORLDS LARGEST INDOOR THEME PARK’, 1.5 million square feet (equivalent to 28 football pitches), open 365 days a year. The park is promising the best experience possible when it welcomes guests starting 31 August, 2016. 

If you have little boys like me, then Superheros and Theme parks are something they never grow out of entirely. This place offers the best of both worlds.

MAIN ATTRACTIONS - The park will be made up of FOUR MAIN ZONES

The Marvel Area - Featuring 5 main rides and made to look like the streets of New York. The rides include Avengers Battle of Ultron, Hulk Epsilon Base 3D, Spider-Man Doc Ock’s Revenge, Thor Thunder SpinAvengers Flight of the Quinjets


The Cartoon Network zone- Ride with The Power-puff Girls, Ben 10 5D Hero Time - following the Ben 10 character during a battle, Adventure Time -  ride with Finn & Jake, interactive remote game, The Amazing Ride of Gum-ball, LazyTown Playground and Live Stage Show


Lost Valley Dinosaur-themed section : The Velociraptor - 1.1 km rollercoaster goes from 0 to 100 km in 2.5 seconds, Forbidden Territory Safari - where you’ll see 70 prehistoric, life-sized animatronic dinosaurs,Predator - A heart thumping 400-metre-long ‘vertical rollecoaster’, Dino Carousel - the world’s first ‘dinosaur-themed carousel’

IMG Boulevard -. This retail and F&B area promises to be the perfect shopping, eating or meeting spot for family and friends.

Other Features

  • 25 original retail concept stores
  • 28 F&B outlets - Features food trucks to fine dining, and 13 types of cuisine.
  • 4,500 parking spaces.
  • NOVO cinemas is nestled in the premises where folkscan access without paying the general entrance fee

Your little ones will find plenty of activities here to stay cool and entertained during the blazing heat of Dubai Summer. Doesn’t this look great?

Back To School shopping guide in Dubai

Back To School shopping guide in Dubai

It’s that time of the year - Back To School Season's here!

As a mom of 3 you naturally look around for products of quality, unique in design and good value for money. I have tried and tested many products (some which were given to me by brands to test) and some that i personally vouch for as they have stood out over time... Are you wondering which backpacks and lunch boxes you should pick? Look no further, below i have complied a list of amazing Back to School supplies for you to browse and get inspired.

Back to school Essentials

Red Tag


Budget Find

  • Red Tag


Fashion Forward

  • Pottery Barn Kids


  • Cath Kidston



Its back to packing lunch time. From Bento box, to sectioned tray to cutlery.

Budget Find

  • Cath Kidston


Fashion Forward


AED 69

AED 65

  • Pottery Barn Kids


Insulated food containers

  • DB Babies

AED 90/-

Bento boxes

Portable and organized solution for packing in a few items. I absolutely love them


Spinneys/ DB Babies

AED 55

Fashion Forward

Bento box from Just Kidding Store 

AED 165 

Lunch Box Carrier


Red Tag

Pottery Barn





AED 19

Fashion Forward

Camel Back -  I absolutely swear by these leak proof bottles. Every child should own one. Available at Center Point, Virgin, DB babies

AED 75

Cath Kidston

AED 60





AED 22 

Fashion Forward

Pottery Barn Kids





Red Tag

Fashion Forward

Adidas (Official Store)

AED 125



Dubai Libraries

Fashion Forward -  Not for drooly mouths to chew.

Kate Spade

AED 120

AED 100/-

Teens collection - From trendy to chic

Kate Spade

AED 1140 

AED 200

AED 90

AED 150

Location of stores

Red Tag

Location - IBN Battuta, Lamcy Plaza, Arabian Center Mirdif, 

Union Co-op Al Wasl, Al Ghurair Mall

Pottery Barn Kids

Location: Dubai Mall, Mirdif City Center

Cath Kidston

Locations: Mall of Emirates, Dubai Festival City, Mirdif City Center

Kate Spade

Mirdif City Center, Dubai Mall, Mall of the Emirates, Marina Mall


Locations: Deira City, Center, Mirdif City CenterFestival City, Ind Battuta, Dubai Festival City, Dubai Mall, Al Ghurair, Oasis Center, Madina Mall

DB Babies

Mercato Mall, Arbian center Mirdif, Town Center Jumeirah Mall, Al Quoz

Just Kidding Store

Waffi Mall, Golden Diamond Park, Al Safa

IFA Sports Camp

IFA Sports Camp


Your Kid loves football and cant wait to be enrolled into a coaching program?

I completely understand; and If you are scouting for a good summer football coaching program I know just the right fit for you.

My seven year old boy, Abhishek, is an athletic young lad. When I was pregnant with him I took a shopping tripjust to get him a sports themed nursery! By the time he was one he had sports jerseys and football shoes…after all that I still question why my boy turned out to be a football fanatic. AB has been urging us for the longest while to sign him up for football coaching. I would always reason in my head that this might be a fleeting fantasy… I was delaying the inevitable hoping that my boy will soon forget. Nope…I was proved wrong. His passion is here to stay and he is determined that some day he will be the next Messi.

This led his dad and I to scout for a coaching program. Not long ago, I was invited to Sports World Dubai, the largest indoor sporting event in the UAE to review their facility. During my visit there I was drawn to the IFA sports academy, which have been running summer football camps at this location. My son was offered an amazing opportunity to experience IFA Football coaching. It was sheer delight to watch him suit up for his coaching. I watched his legs agile and powering with athleticism and his face beaming as he set sail on his dream.  At the start of the week, he was put into a training group based on his age and ability. Kids are given a coach for their team and have the same coach all week to build up a rapport.

At IFA, football fanatic kids and teens get their kicks and top-notch instruction in the sport to keep them pumping throughout the day!  IFA have been running football camps for 4 to 16 year olds at the Dubai Trade center location since the inception of Dubai Sports World. Here they focus on a wide range of skills, drills and tactics. At the end of the day they have a match and each kid is evaluated for different competencies on a score sheet. They offer skilled football coaching from beginner to academy level and offer young players a solid foundation on which they can build their skill.

The coaching offered here is ideal for kids and teens who have an interest to get started or for those looking to advance their skills. This has been an unforgettable football camp experience for my young future sports star. My lil late riser, now, cant wait to put on his soccer shoes and practice some kicks. 

Whether you have a football-obsessed kid at hand or you are scrambling to figure out a plan for you lil ones to spend their summer blowing off steam in the coolest ways possible, this is the place to hone their skills or learn a new one.


Location :       Dubai Sports World - Dubai World Trade Centre (Indoor Venue)

Dates :             Sunday 26th June - Thursday 25th August.

Times:              9am - 12pm and 1pm - 4pm

Ages:               4 - 16 years old.

Cost:                500 AED for 5 half Days or 125 AED per half day.

                        750 AED for full 5 days or 200 per full day.

To secure your child's place, book on line now or please call 04 4541683 or emailcamps@ifasport.com.  

Please book early to avoid disappointment, as spaces are limited.


Visit www.ifasport.com for more info 

Pregnancy Meal and Snack plan for a balanced diet


Oh you’re pregnant..You must eat for two! There will never be anything as loud as this common refrain that gets to the ears of a preggy mommy. It is one of the biggest pregnancy misconceptions - although you absolutely need to focus on nourishing your baby. In reality you just need an extra 300-500calories a day. Pregnancy was the one phase in my life that i consciously planned a healthy eating guideline and it sure kept me fit and strong. What you eat during pregnancy has an impact on the health of your baby. Hence be wise to choose what you eat and what you need to avoid. Break down your meals to breakfast, lunch, dinner and two snacks (in between the big meals)-keeping the focus on HEALTHY. 

Foods to avoid

Junk food, Alcohol, High-sugar, High intake of caffein, Cold-cuts/deli, soft and unpasteurized cheeses, raw fish/raw seafood/raw or semi cooked eggs and artificial sweeteners.

My plate a day should include : 2 cups of fruits, 3 cups veggies, 7 ounce grains, 6 ounce meat/beans, 3 cups dairy, 6tsp fat/oil

Never skip meals to avoid gaining weight.

Eating healthy and to plan different meals or snacks for the week is a tedious task. Fret not!! Below is a list of options you could pick and fix in a jiffy! This is a meal plan that i personally fixed and stuck to. It had me going strong and healthy for all 3 pregnancies.

Kick off your mornings with a Healthy Breakfast


  • Cinnamon porridge or oat meal topped with your choice of berries
  • A huge bowl of Berriesor citrus fruits layered with granola and topped with Greek Yoghurt (has twice the goodness of regular yoghurt) and berry coulis
  • Pita bread cut in half and loaded with labneh/hummus, sliced boiled eggs, cucumbers and ground fresh pepper/salt
  •  A colorful omelet on brown toast. 
  • Brown bread toast and crackers spread with Labneh and topped with sliced Avocados.
  • Upma (Indian Breakfast) with chickpea or kidney bean curry.
  • A glass of laban, strawberry smoothieor mango milkshake with scrambled eggs and a slice of whole meal bread
  • Muesli mixed with dry fruits/nuts accompanied by floured yoghurt

Lunch/ Dinner options


  • A big bowl of leafy veggie salad prepared with lettuce, kale, grilled chicken strips, avocados, cherry tomatoes, chickpeas, red beans paired with a glass of pomegranate juice .
  • Grilled chicken leg or thigh, wheat pita paired with hummus and a side of Taboule salad 
  • Beef steaks ( medium well to well done) with roasted veggies
  • Grilled fish with sautéed spinach or pok choy.
  • Indian Rice thali. Exactly 10 table spoon of rice with huge helpings of side veggie dishes and a portion of fish or meat dish.
  • A medium bowl of Sweet corn and chicken noodle soup.
  • chicken stir-fry with grapefruit and orange salad
  • lamb chops with sautéed kale and steamed veggies
  • Quinoa Fried rice with Chicken curry.
  • Roti’s with egg roast curry or sides of veg/non veg dish.
  • Kebabs, a quarter cup of hummus, baby carrots and few triangles of wheat pita bread
  • Broccoli/Carrot/Pumpkin soup with whole grain bread and sautéed veggies

Pregnancy is also a time for ravenous cravings. I am not one who propagates ‘go full abstinence’.  Allow yourselfa few treats a week such as; SMALL portions of cheesy or chocolaty goodness or a HANDFUL of chips and fries. While you satisfy your cravings you also need to be careful not to overdose on it. Cravings are most often a sensory or emotional attraction. As much as possible satisfy your cravings with healthier alternatives. Below mentioned are some healthy options for snacks.

  • Handful of Nuts and dried fruits
  • Low fat cheese and olives
  • Cut fruits or Fruits drizzled with chocolate sauce
  • Wholegrain muffin
  • Popcorn- yes you heard me right. 
  • Frozen yoghurt
  • Steamed corn with lemon extract salt and pepper
  • Carrot, cucumber and Pepper juliennes with hummus, yogurt or labneh dip